aight question for the ladies

[cloudfa]

so i'm dating this girl and i love her but the passion's gone. I mean we still have sex but its more like work to me? the fires not there ya know? so my heart is split do i break up with her and hurt her so i can selfishly find a more attractive woman or do i stay with her at the expense of my own happiness?

its a little more extreme than it is in life but to get a clear answer. i'd be happy with her if i had to stay but i have a choice..

how do you feel if you were her then also if you were me what would you do?

[MerryH]

Have you even tried fixing this? "Spice things up" or however those trashy lady's magazines say it. Feather ticklers, furry handcuffs, sexy lingerie (on you), toys, naughty boardgames, try anal (on you), rings, lube, edible unmentionables, etc.

But I mean, if you're not into her at all anymore and there's no point in trying, then just break up with her.

[cloudfa]

haha we were talking about secret fantasies a couple days ago. a good idea. we had a big fight last night and seem to be like new today.. i guess sometimes we just need a fight