What happened to Indireloaded?

[Incognito]

Ok, I was gone from LF for a bit, so maybe I missed something. It looks like Indi hasn't posted since September, what happened? Anyone?

[misombra]

She left and said she wouldn't be back.

[Incognito]

What? Why?

[misombra]

She said social internet sites contribute to collectivism.

[Incognito]

Wow. Well if that is the reason she gave I don't believe it to be the true reason. I don't see how internet sites contribute to a thinking that 'the group' or 'mass' is greater than 'the individual'. I wonder why she really left.

[Mish]

She said that this forum is too addictive and it's taking too much of her free time

[bluesummer]

She'll be back. We always come back. Dammit.

[Incognito]

She said that this forum is too addictive and it's taking too much of her free time

Ahhh, ok, that makes a bit more sense. I've been getting home late every day for a while because of posting here. I still think that it is strange to just stop posting altogether when she says "it is addictive" since that means that she obviously got some joy out of doing it.

[Junket]

I thought you hated Indie.

[Incognito]

^^^ LOL We certainly have had our share of heated disagreements in various threads, but I certainly don't hate her. In fact, every time we got into a really bad argument we PMed each other and rationally hashed things out. Usually our "battles" were fueled by others' responses that got in the way of us making our point without being negative. Once everyone else was out of the picture we calmly and respectfully made our points and even though we might not have agreed on the topic we respected each other's right to an opinion. I think that she made excellent points at times, and other times I simply enjoyed to way she ferociously defended her opinion (when I wasn't on the receiving end, lol).