Talk To Carlos

[carlosaugustine]

Hi everyone!

Someone once said that in springtime, a young man's fancy turns to love. By fall, the love has turned sour. Ah, wouldn't it be great if everyone could solve their relationship problems just by pushing a relationship easy button.

We all know it's not that easy, but it doesn't have to be so very hard either. I believe most relationship problems can be fixed...

...Why?

Because most relationships fail as a result of two primary love killers:

IMMATURITY and (following from that)
UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.

When these two dynamics work in tandem, a relationship is headed for ruin at a rapid pace.

What can be done?

The simple answer is for one or both people to grow up, and do it quick. Easy to say, not so easy to do, right?

I'd like to help you if you are having relationship problems. Drop me a line and let me know what's going on, if you like.

[doppelgaenger]

Hi Carlos, welcome.

Frankly, you seem to have a pretentious attitude about giving advice. It's great that you have a developed opinion about how this kind of stuff works... I might even agree with some of your points, but we have a good assembly of experienced members here who all give insight to guest posters and newbies on their situation. It's more of a tribunal or a town square... think of it as a bar - there's the bar tender, a couple of bouncers, the regulars, and everybody else. I hope you can contribute to this, instead of leading posters off in your own private direction, as if your advice were more qualified than members here.

I've read some of your posts already and I think you'd be a good addition to the crowd here.