My problem is that I know a few who have said that i am good looking, and i personally think I am myself as well. Most girls just say that im cute though. I think of that as most girls just want to be friends with me and think im cute but dont want to have a relationship or anything of the sort.I am not very shy in most occasions, and have an easy time talking to girls without being too scared or anything. I enjoy singing and rapping, and tons of girls think im amazing at it. I am in pretty good shape, i work out often but im not like super jacked. People think im pretty funny, and i get pretty average grades in all my classes.and i am pretty popular around school. I usually hang around with everybody, unlike most of my friends who pick a group and stick to it. I usually keep wandering from group to group. People think of me as like the nicest guy ever and im afraid thats my problem.
It seems like every time i want to try and get a girl, or get in a relationship, i either dont feel were close enough or know each other enough to start dating, or once i become friends with them, we become really good friends and they think of me as just a friend.I thought it was because i just wasn't flirty enough, but even when i am trying to flirt around, they think of it as im just kidding or something.
There is this girl that i am starting to like currently, and i have been talking to her over the last couple of days. We share a couple of common interests like theater, anime and music. She is not really one of those girls who is into flirting, or seems flirty at all. She is more of a good girl, and i am wondering, how can i start to get closer to this girl without becoming too good friends that we become just friends. Also stuff about signs that she likes me, when to ask her out, and other advice along those lines that could potentially help me with my situation would also be greatly appreciated.