EX's behavior playing with my mind

[bat061711]

I am in a new relationship after being divorced for 2 yrs. I love this woman with my heart and soul. We had an issue when I saw a comment a guy made to her on facebook. Although she ignored the comment and quit chatting to him it triggered my mind to things my ex did. We ended up in an argument and I have apologized for she had done nothing wrong, but my fear in my mind is that I will lose her to someone online like I did the ex.

She has clammed up on me and won't talk much at the present. I want to get things back to where they were prior to this little mess that was caused by my screwed up mind.

Can someone please help me to understand what I need to do to keep the past from affecting the present?

Thanks,
TJ

[Boisdevie]

Have you considered counselling?

[devonbrown]

I second the counseling suggestion. That is not to mean something is wrong with you, per se, but you have been injured emotionally by your ex and you need to find your way back to trusting another person again. Give you current partner some space and just let her know that you understand that you have to work some things out in your mind so that she won't be bothered by previous baggage again and that you are seeking help to do just that. Because you care about her and your relationship with her. And continue to apologize. Good luck.