Alright kids, this is going to be a long one!
My boyfriend and I has been together for a little over a year. Honestly one of the best relationships I ever been in until he moved. 6 months in person and 6 months living apart in different states. I like to think we have a great relationship but for the past months, I feel its been going down because our communication is drowning. We talk every night for a little, which I'm thankful for but I feel its not enough. I feel that I'm the one who's always texting/calling. I even try to "test him" to see if he'll start the calls/text but nope. Its sad. I don't want to be those crazy controlling girlfriends so I give him as much space as he needs and for heaven's sake, we're long distance. (How much space does a person need anyways?!) But anyways, we see each other once a month.
We talk whenever he's off work driving back home and Skype once in a blue moon yet I still don't feel included in his life. Even though its night time when we talk, he always seems occupied when he's talking with me or in a rush to get off and it gets annoying because no matter what I'm doing, I drop it and focus on him and feels he doesn't do the same! ALSO, this is going to sound like a stupid scenario but (lol..) on his Facebook (YES, FACEBOOK DRAMA...llol) he posts events that happens on his wall that he never chats with me about. He just kinda tells me "I did this and this and this..." but never in detail and that bugs me because I know he has much more to say.
It would be nice for him to sit down, focus on each other and give each other our full attention. It feels like I'm not as important to him anymore nor is he interested to learn more about me. (mainly because we know each other well but I love talking about random stuff!) Yes, I did bring this up to him a couple times and he really doesn't know what to do because he feels like he's doing all that he can. I really don't know what to do.