How can you cope with another man bringing up your child?

**dan2k7** · 19-12-10, 01:37 AM

As above, just found out that my ex will be moving my 2yr old son in with ones of her exes that she has been dating. The thought is killing me inside of another man playing daddy to my child. How can I cope with this sort of thing

**misombra** · 19-12-10, 01:53 AM

Ugh. That would really irritate me. I'm sorry. I really don't have any advice.

**Ryan Heitzman** · 19-12-10, 01:55 AM

I can just say I couldn't cope with my son having another dad. I just couldn't.

**qwertz** · 19-12-10, 02:05 AM

Hmm, has she been with him long?

**dan2k7** · 19-12-10, 02:12 AM

Originally Posted by qwertz

Hmm, has she been with him long?

I am not sure, she won't admit how long it has been going on. They were exes before, but now it could have been going on a couple of months or longer

**sweetkissesforu** · 19-12-10, 02:18 AM

Originally Posted by dan2k7

As above, just found out that my ex will be moving my 2yr old son in with ones of her exes that she has been dating. The thought is killing me inside of another man playing daddy to my child. How can I cope with this sort of thing

Make sure you are a strong presence in this childs life
you are the boys father that means paying support so many men forget their obligations when they feel that way my ex did nothing gave up on my kids and had family number 2 then #3 this man does nothing for my daughters but he is dad very important
if possible for your son trying to get along with your ex
that is heathy to see mom and dad get along
it is alot of work but trust me in the end it is best for your son
Hope i did not ramble on lol

**dan2k7** · 19-12-10, 02:35 AM

Originally Posted by sweetkissesforu

Make sure you are a strong presence in this childs life
you are the boys father that means paying support so many men forget their obligations when they feel that way my ex did nothing gave up on my kids and had family number 2 then #3 this man does nothing for my daughters but he is dad very important
if possible for your son trying to get along with your ex
that is heathy to see mom and dad get along
it is alot of work but trust me in the end it is best for your son
Hope i did not ramble on lol

Thank you for your reply, I am so worried about her denying me contact to him. I don't want him to forget me :'(

**Boisdevie** · 19-12-10, 10:50 AM

Man, you have my sympathy.The only thing I can suggest is working on your relationship with your ex so you get to see your son often enough.

**dan2k7** · 20-12-10, 01:03 AM

Originally Posted by Boisdevie

Man, you have my sympathy.The only thing I can suggest is working on your relationship with your ex so you get to see your son often enough.

Good advice as always, as long as I can play an active part in his life I stand a good chance of not letting him drift away from me. Too many things to worry about though especially the thought of her moving away or something.

**NeoSam** · 23-12-10, 05:05 PM

really feel for you mate,i would go crazy, all i can say is to see your son as much as possible, if she denied contact to your son go to court, he is your son and you have the right to be in his ife

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