Originally Posted by
misombra
i'm not too sure about that. sometimes i don't really care about cuming, of course i can't go years without it but sometimes i'm just like damn, be done already and that's fine. but believing that your girlfriend is having sex with you only for your pleasure is kind of a bunch of bullshit. give the girl something to hang on to.
You misunderstood me. I didn't mean that the chic is with him simply for the sex. That's obvious. What I meant was that no matter what everyone says, sex is a vital part of a relationship. Unless you're one of those people who are totally against it. But in a healthy relationship there will always have to be good sex. Why do you think people who have been married for years have to find ways to keep it interesting? Because sex is important in a relationship. Once the sexual attraction is lost, the relationship tends to become solely based on other aspects, which isn't a bad thing. But the need for pleasure will always be there, and if you can't get it from your loved one, who will you get it from? That's why a lot of people cheat. I've been down this road before, that's why I feel this way.
Anyway, i'm rambling. My point is, though not the only thing, sex is important in a relationship. That's just my opinion though. I'm sure some will disagree. But i like debates.
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