I was wondering if I could get some truthful and honest advice on where to go to meet available guys? Guys: where do you seriously go to meet girls and what makes you wanna approach them? I'm soft spoken and kinda shy any advice for a girl like that? I go out and can't even get a guy to wanna talk to me (but I only go to Wal-mart and the library usually in the morning and when I go to the library it's only older men and dorky guys there! Advice please!!!!!!!!