I have a serious issue with so many guys out there who will hit on and keep asking out so many girls.
Long story short, I am 23, I've never had a GF (due to some psychological issues-have been resolved now), but I was planning on asking this young lady who I've been liking for the best part of 2 years now. However over the last 2 years I have not bothered to go because of the number of other guys that go up to her.
I am not afraid of rejection, cause if she says no, it's her loss, I have gained enough confidence to think that way.
What I am afraid of is the fact so many guys are hitting on her, one time when I was around her, I saw in the space of 20 mins, 6 guys approach her, that was just in a small comfort zone/lounge as we call it. If I go up to her she may think, "oh no here's another".
What do girls think of guys like that? Those who will just keep asking out and hitting on girls and how can the guys who are not like that, ensure they are not viewed in that way.
It's been 2 damn years and I haven't made a move because of issues like this.