If a girl comes to my apartment after a night out drinking I assume she wants to have sex. Kissing isn't even in question at that point.
Your mistake was asking. No girl wants to be asked. When the moment is right you lean in and you kiss her. Sounds like you really screwed something up if you got her back to your apartment but didn't even manage a smooch. Are you socially awkward or something? Did you weird her out? Is she socially awkward?
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein