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Thread: He Won't Believe Me But Wants Me To Get Back With Him

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    He Won't Believe Me But Wants Me To Get Back With Him

    A few months ago....my ex boyfriend had a party. Me and his best friend spent the night at his house. My boyfriend went to bed early and I went with him but I wanted a drink of water before I went to sleep. I went into kitchen and his best friend was in there......he started a drunk argument (I don't think he was truly drunk)...It was about him using my ex and only calling him when he had none else to hang with or when he wanted or needed something. Which led to him trying to wrestle me and getting between my legs. I fought back and I asked him "What are you doing??!!" he said "I don't know but I'm not gonna say I don't like it." I made him get off me. Then while I was at the fridge.....he walked over to me and kissed me. I pushed him away and he kept forcefully trying to kiss me, pulled his penis out and tried to make me touch it. I am grossed out by him....he is a very disgusting person. I didn't want to tell my ex because I knew he probably wouldn't believe me. But I told him everything anyway. His friend told him that I am lying. Now my ex really thinks that I am lying and only saying those things because I am jealous of their friendship...I am willing to take a lie detector test to prove I am telling the truth. What's weird is......whenever his friend comes around he tries to pretend nothing ever happened and be friends with me. My ex. and I broke up because I am tired of him accusing me of lying but we remain friends. It really hurts because he still wants to be with me. I love him too much and I refuse to sit there and watch him be used and betrayed by his friend (in more ways than one). I tried telling him to keep his friend away from me but he still brings him to my house and along with us whenever we go out. And I want NOTHING to do with him. I am about to put my ex out of my life completely. We are best friends and have been together for 4 years but I don't know if I can be with him or even be friends while he still thinks I am lying on his friend out of jealousy. He wants me to tolerate and be friends with the asshole and I REFUSE to even go around him. Would you believe your partner or your best friend in this case? Is it fair for me to tell him he has to make a choice..."It's either me or him....?" Any advice here would be appreciated. Thanks

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    Cut this guy and his friend out of your life....who need that drama anyways. These two are too immature for you.

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    That is called sexual assault where i come from
    Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
    Oscar Wilde

    What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
    ~ by Ralph Waldo Emerson ~

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    That's disgusting, I wonder why he trusts his friends but not you, maybe his friend built a story up :-S

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