Originally Posted by
mazdaspeed
So I've known this person (lets call her Jane) for at least 3 years, and have dated for about 2 of those years. Things have been going very well minus one or two concerns, but otherwise it is what i suppose some might call a good relationship. The question i have is, is there a way to broach the subject of being conversational in a way that is constructive and doesn't necessarily include the "lets be friends" routine? Or is not being in a relationship with Jane pretty much my only option until this person figures their own stuff out? hmmm....i guess how do i make it so that conversations flow easier between me and my girlfriend? Is there something I can do outside of leading the conversations? Its starting to get to be a fair bit of work, and i know not everything is my responsibility.