So my ex (we broke up one month ago) sent a Christmas card addressed to my family and inside it was addressed to me and my parents and had a small paragraph saying he thinks of us during "christmastime!" and hopes we have an amazing holiday! and then he signed it "sincerely" with a smiley face next to his name.
Honestly, I'm a bit angry and a bit hurt. I know he was making a nice gesture and I understand he is being friendly, but to see him write sincerely instead of love was a bit of a punch in my gut and then to see him write so happily and almost detached of passion in the card was not something I was ready for.
I currently strongly dislike him for trying to pursue a friend of mine only two weeks after breaking up with me and also for finding out that he commented on my friends picture while we were still dating and then deleting the action from his wall so I couldn't see (he never deletes any actions on his wall ever and has told me he doesn't)....I am now at this state where I think he may have been doing things behind my back...most likely through facebook since he has become quite a facebooker...and was possibly looking at other females' and doing things in perhaps a flirty way while we were still together...And I strongly dislike him also for acting so overly friendly and his friends also are acting so overly friendly with me through facebook. My ex keeps liking a picture of mine here and there and my statuses too.
Basically, given my feelings and the fact I had not planned to send him a card or planned to even text him merry christmas....I was planning to ignore him and never talk to him again despite the fact that we said we would be friends when he broke up with me. He has no idea I know about his pursuing of my friend and what I now assume about him while we were together.
It hurts. To know he seems ok a month later and he is already trying to be my friend so soon after our break up.
So what do I do? Send him a card back but be devoid of emotion in it? Ignore it and send him nothing and ignore his texts for the holidays? Tell him to stop speaking and contacting me because we can never be friends? Advice please!