I would love to hear some honest opinions from guys! ALways getting advice from girls..it'd be nice to hear some opinions of the opposite sex.
Point #1 : My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years... and he has been the "dominant" one in our relationship. He has also been the only one who warns me about cheating, going out with other guys, chatting with other guys, FB friend request-ing other guys!!
He even "threatens" me about what would happen if I ever do any of those things.
Point #2: Also, ever since we've been together, he has always brought up his "ability to get girls" whenever we have a fight.. usually saying something along the lines of "WHat? You think I can't get a girl?"
During normal conversation times, he has frequently brought up the fact that in the past, his friends always asked him to talk to girls for them in the club, and get numbers for them etc... because his "skills" are so good.
Point #3: He has a very very strong dominance issue. He cannot accept the feeling of "losing"...any kind of losing. He has also told me that whenever we have sex after a fight, he feels great because he feels like he just "won".
Back to the 'losing' issue, he can't accept losing bets/challenges:
-A: Last time we went to the club, he brought up the "my friends always used to ask me to get girls..." thing, and I said cool. I was curious, so I asked him to show me his skills. At this point, we hadn't had any drinks yet and he thought about it. It looked like he was gonna say yes, but 2 seconds later, he quickly rejected my idea and showed a bit of frustration as to why his GF would suggest such a thing. He said something about "i'll always be loyal to you. it wouldn't feel good when I do stuff like that"
THEN, after we had a few shots....surprisingly, HE ASKED ME "hey, you still wanna see how good your bf is at talking to girls?" I was quite shocked.
-B: Another time, the day after we had a ginormous fight about him-talking-to-his-ex-behind-my-back, he and his friends had gone to a car dealership. Apparently, there was a hot insurance lady, and his friend "challenged" my bf's skills of whether he could get her number or not. My bf AGREED to this challenged. When I confronted him about this, he said it was because he can't back down from a challenge. WTF?
I may sound like a controlling bitch, checking his phone..and getting mad about him talking to his ex..etc, but I have my own reasons to why I act like that. He has ALWAYS been the one threatening me about talking to the other sex, attacking the errors of my past(before I even met him), etc..
It feels so unfair that after what he always says to me, he acts like this.
MY QUESTION IS:
Do you guys think that my bf will cheat...slip... sooner or later? based on his behaviour so far.