would you as women, (think of urself as the age of 20) date a man who is 31 years old? Date like... seeing a future together. A long term relationship.
YES or NO
would you as women, (think of urself as the age of 20) date a man who is 31 years old? Date like... seeing a future together. A long term relationship.
YES or NO
Id rather hurt than feel nothing at all
No I wouldn't have. I always preferred guys my own age and still do.
Why at the age of 20, would I have been thinking long term relationships and a future with a guy? At 20, I was way too busy enjoying my youth and the last thing I wanted was to settle for a kitchen sink and washing mens underwear - there is more to life IMO and plenty of time to do grown up stuff, when you are actually grown up.
Last edited by xxazurexx; 05-01-11 at 05:51 AM.
GOD NO.
at 30 and 41 Hell yes.
At 21, I dated a guy whbo was 29. And that was precisely what did it in eventually. He just moved too slow, wanted to relax most nights and go out occasionally. I wanted to go out every night, go, go, go. I wanted a serious relationship and marriage, it was just the pace of his life I couldn't handle. I got restless and bored and had to go. And what was so awful to me then would be just fine, now! I couldn't keep up with 21-year-old me anymore.
i would want one. so mature.
Im 26 and my bf is 39. Suppose it comes down to what you've got in common and how well you gel together.
AT 20 I was thinking about baby #1 and in a serious relationship with someone I met when I was 14 ( he was 16). We were married when I was 4 months along with #2.
Is this guy looking to have children? Do you have a career path you want to follow? Its rare these things work out with so many years inbetween but you never know and weve all been proved wrong. But I lean way to the "GOD NO" by girl68
Sure, why not!?
of course.
age is only a number. if you have a connection, go for it
if you're both at the same stage in life and you both are at the same level of maturity... then yes - go for it!
the actual age is irrevelant.
Yes. I was never attracted by guys of my age