Hi. I'm 19 years old and in college. I'm dating a guy right now. We have gone on two dates. He was asking me out for more than three times before I agreed to go on the first date. When he asked for those two dates, he seemed very interested. He went out of his way to please me and was very nice. The first was a little awkward as I'm not used to the dating scene and quite shy.
The second time, we become quite intimate as we did some cuddling and kissing (he initiated those). It kinda felt good but the truth is I've never cuddled with and kissed that passionately with any guy before. So, I kinda freaked out. On the way home we had the define-the-relationship talk. I asked him, what are we? Are we friends or more than that? I told him if we are to stay just friends, we will never do the cuddling and stuff again. He was startled and everything. At this point, I kinda thought I've just ruined the good time we had.
Btw, he text-ed right after that to say that he really likes me and that's the reason why we became intimate. He says we need more time so that we can be sure if anything other than friendship is possible. And then a week passed and he still hadn't contact me and I text-ed him yesterday. He seemed distance. Today I asked him out and he said yes. But then I changed my mind and said maybe next time and he didn't reply with anything (which make me think he's not interested anymore)
What do you think? Has he lost interest in me and just being polite answering my text? Or is he playing hard to get (like to get back at me for doing it first) or is he just freaked out by me asking him about our relationship status. Was I the one who ruined it? Is he worth pursuing? And WHAT SHOULD I DO???
On the last note, IN MY WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE, I'VE NEVER ASKED A GUY OUT, HE WAS THE FIRST. It has always been the guy who has to ask me out. So, he is kinda a challenge.