Why is my ex contacting me?

[xxazurexx]

That is true: I want her to want me back. But I don't want her back. I just want her to be disappointed.

Perverse, I realize.

I understand where you are coming from

[spiritofjosh]

Girls want what they can't have and they try and get things they want when they want them and not having things they don't want when they don't want them. Sounds confusing but I've learned this from experience and reading people's situations. I rarely meet girls who want the same thing consistently. They'll get bored and want something different but think that when they're done with the new they can get the old back when they want it. Your ex probably thought she can have you when she wants you and you need to prove otherwise. That you aren't here for her, you're here for you.

[Liam_680]

she probably misses you or just want to hear from you, but if you are really ready to let her go, ignore it and she may contact you again, but continue to ignore it until she understands that when you said there will be no communication, there will be no communication.

[TheChris]

*Slow clap.....faster clapping.... ROAR OF THE CROWD CLAPPING*


HERE HERE!!! GOOD SHOW!! *puff of pipe* Hawhaw!!

[MaidenMinx]

Wow @ everyone that suggested he change his number. What a stupid thing to suggest. If I had changed my number every time someone I didn't want to hear from tried to contact me, no one would be able to keep up. Also changing numbers is a general pain in the arse.

[pisces25]

That is true: I want her to want me back. But I don't want her back. I just want her to be disappointed.

Perverse, I realize.

very common. It's called ego. I dumped my BF and he hasn't spoken to me since (6 wks) yet I still want him to want me knowing very well even if he did I wouldn't go there. Just makes ya feel better. Move on and don't contact her, don't give her the satisfaction.