What do you think?

[mcdonnelldaniel]

Hi all,

Looking for some thoughts on a situation I've found myself in recently me and my partner of two years have recently split up (6 weeks ago) we've been in touch every day sometimes just an arguement other days everything is fine.

To go back to the beginning me and my partner both fell madly in love, moved in together, he left his mums and sold his car because he had the use of mine, we moved in together locally to my family and shared a house with some friends to keep costs down. After we'd split it was impossible for my partner to get to work 35 miles away unaided so I helped, dropping him off picking him up etc, he then decided he'd have to move back home as he couldn't afford a car of his own, I've paid all of the household bills and kept the car on the road for two years without taking a penny from him, so I woulda hoped he'd saved a little but he hadn't. Anyway he blamed me for his situation had a huge row.

Now a week after he moved home he's inviting me over, we've been out to a restaraunt, had sex twice and just done fun couple things all at his asking, tonight I asked if I'd be seeing him and he flipped out and said this has to stop, I don't want this. So I'm like WTF?

I love him very dearly and would love things to work out between us, does he still love me and is scared he does and can't admit it or is he just a jerk who made the most of a couple of years of an easy life who now wants his time to himself? I really dont know.. Thoughts please

[GK001]

his a loser....move on plz. you deserve much better.

[xxazurexx]

If you don't know and when you personally and intimately know the guy, how are we supposed to know and when we don't know him?

All I know (and have seen the guys in these forums say), is that when a guy tells you something, he means 'exactly' what he says.

Perhaps he did love you in the beginning, the relationship was something he wanted and he's wanted it for the past two years. But often and in some relationships, things change and people are not getting out of the relationship anymore, what they once did....or they just aren't 'feeling' it for you anymore...shit happens.

He's moved out, gone home, invites you over and you are probably being invited so he can have sex with you. Men don't mind letting relationships go, but they hate to let the sex go that came with the relationship and especially if they are not getting it elsewhere.

Why would he be scared to admit he loves you and if you have been in a relationship for 2 years??

Why are you still having sex with a man, who obviously isn't committed to you or making this work?