sorry about the length!!!
So, I'm trying to figure out a way to hint to a guy that i am NOT interested. (a little more difficult when you can't use body language, it's long distance)*
He is into me (I know this) although he has not confessed it to me directly. We are both 17, but he is in college (smart). Also super shy, so not the type that finds it easy to ask out a girl. During Xmas, he was flirting with me and I flirted back a bit because I wasn't sure. But as soon as he left I realized I didn't think of him in that way. A girl is allowed to change her mind!*
Now he texts and messages me non-stop about random things, and honestly it's getting annoying, not to mention awkward becuase often I don't know what to say. I have tried telling him I'm really busy or that Im distracted and can't talk. I haven't initiated any texts or convos and I've tried to distant myself but he isn't getting the hint. I haven't shown interest since Xmas, and don't want to lead him on. *
If you want to give me some advice about how to show a guy you ARE interested as well, I won't argue