Hi there,
This is my first post about myself so here goes:
I met a girl at work last year, she immediately caught my eye, beautiful red hair, bright eyes, nice figure and seemed really nice. Anyway we were out with workmates and at the end of the night we kissed and she stayed at mine (nothing happened). I asked her a few days later if she wanted to go out on a date but got refused so that was that, I think it was because we are different people, I am unfortuantely clingy when around a girl at first whereas she seems the complete opposite plus I have low self confidence which doesnt help.
Anyway because we work together it makes things a bit awkward, we dont talk to each other and I cant stop looking at her, honestly I do try but its hard. I sometimes look at her and think "what if" which I know I need to stop doing.
So what I am asking is what can I do to stop thinking of her, I am currently looking for alternative work not because of this but because my contract there is about to run out and trying to focus on myself more but there are times when I lay in bed and think about her.
It all sounds pretty pathetic but I thought I would share my story and get some advice which would be greatly appreciated