So, I posted something not long ago about getting together with my boyfriend 4 months ago and his ex being a pain in the beginning, on one occasion calling him at 3am and him picking her up (so she was safe as she was drunk etc). Anyway, this was after our first date and he said she slept on the sofa.
Truth is, it came out that she only went to the sofa after throwing a strop (apparently after he wouldn't cuddle up to her).
So, in short...after a date with me, he just took her upstairs to sleep in his bed.
Not only that, but he kept that from me, as well as lying about the last time he slept with her (he maintains that this was before we met up and never after).
Its doing my head in. All I can think about is that I've asked him direct questions about all this stuff and he lied to my face. He said he was scared. That he told me basic info, like she slept downstairs, which she did end up doing, but not the fact that he assumed she was gonna sleep next to him first off.
It's not just that, but now I keep wondering what else? Maybe he slept with her after we met?
Argggh. I'm so distressed about it all.