Hello all,
I really need some help here. My boyfriend who I have been with for a month is mad because he thinks I have been lying to him about cheating on him with exes. He seems to want to know the dirty laundry in my past which I admit; I haven�t been completely honest with him about. I believe that my past is my past, and the mistakes that I have made I have already paid for, and I will tell him about when the time is right and I know him better. Well, to make a long story short, he and I had a falling out and he pretty much said I am a liar and he wants to know who I really am. I swear to God that I am not cheating on him and I have had a rough past, which I am not comfortable talking about right now. If I tell him who I really am it needs to be the right time. He wants a serious relationship and so do I. I mean I probably want a serious relationship more than he does (even though he swears that is what he wants more than I do). The trouble is, he and I had a falling out and he is obviously upset at me now. We are not speaking right now and I feel that this matter can be taken care of with the right communication. How should I contact him, should I show up at his place with roses and beer all dressed up?? How do I tell him that I want a serious relationship and I want to be with just him and him only? How to I tell him that I have made bad mistakes in the past, but the past is the past and I have learned my lesson?