Talking to an ex wife

[mkaletta]

My wife has decided to divorce me because she is having an affair with another guy who just recently got divorced from his wife. I found out who the wife is and she had no clue that he was seeing another women but she thanked me for letting her know. We just recently started talking to eacher other, she lives in another state. But we talk and text all the time just to talk or vent.

SHe is really nice and I have never even met her before. Is ok that I am doing this? I think it is and If it leads into something else down the road who knows, it just helps me talk to her and I even asked her if it makes her feel uncomfortable let me know.

WHat do you think

[awsome]

I think she is uncomfortable to talk to you because she doesn't know you .. if you can meet her that is good to see each other

best wishs .

[xxazurexx]

So you are chatting to this other woman, I'm assuming you have no clue what she looks like, you have never met her and you are saying it might lead, (or hoping) to lead to somewhere and down the road????

Are you desperate or something?

I think you are thinking wayyyyyy too far ahead and in regard to a woman who may only be viewing you as a FRIEND!!

She's just come out of a relationship. So I would imagine that the last thing she is looking for, is to get involved elsewhere and with another man and probably won't be ready for some time to come.

It's ok to be a FRIEND yeah....but if you are being her friend and for the purpose of seeing if it leads anywhere, you aren't 'genuinely' being a friend are you??

[Take2]

Are there children involved here? Because if so, you are entangling yourself a LOT with your ex if you date his new fiancee's ex! A LOT! And possible step-siblings on both sides? Kind of creepy!

I'd pass and find someone else, personally. Too much temptation to hang onto the past with this connection, when what you need is to move forward.

[SelflessnHumble]

How many failed relationships do you have? (in addition to this failed marriage)
If you want yet another one under your belt: go for it.
Sure, you feel justified in doing so but you are interfering in another person's marriage when you have no business doing so.

Can't you meet people with original methods or must you leech onto this connection your wife began?