Is there any hope at all 4 me? Quick question..

[girl68]

I think it's unnatural for girls to fight over guys

I'd find it very natural to kick your ass (if I was your imaginary lovers gf)... just so you know. We call people like you homewreckers.

[curly1118]

If you work at something then yeah you can achieve it. But give me a break, there are certain morals that people need to take into account and moving in on another woman's man breaks those morals. Unless you have none. It sounds like you live in your own little bubble and believe in all these fairy tale endings. Well I hate to break it to ya, hun. But life is way different than that. You can't always get what you want and there are certain things you just should not do.

[girl68]

maybe.. but damn it's so frustrating.. ppl keep saying things like "there's nothing impossible", "if you really want something and work towards it you will get it" is it all bs then?

It's something called "morale..." Get some, it's nice.

[xxazurexx]

^Probably bullshit and if you refer it to some people yeah...

Or we'd all be with, who we really wanted to be with.

[Fjortis]

then how come people start dating, break up, move on, start dating someone again.. according to you then, all those people who don't marry their first love a immoral idiots?

[MerryH]

then how come people start dating, break up, move on, start dating someone again.. according to you then, all those people who don't marry their first love a immoral idiots?

Hm?

Anyway, there's working hard to get what you want, and then there's screwing people over in the process.

Dickheads do the latter.

[Fjortis]

that and there's also "fighting for your love" which is supposed to be noble even

[MerryH]

that and there's also "fighting for your love" which is supposed to be noble even

Not if you're screwing someone over.

[curly1118]

then how come people start dating, break up, move on, start dating someone again.. according to you then, all those people who don't marry their first love a immoral idiots?

Absolutely not. You're totally missing the ball here.

Dating and seeing people is just a natural part of growing up. Some people stay married for 40 years and some go through life going through person after person. Nothing is necessarily "wrong" with breaking up and dating other people. It just happened to work out that way. Some people are meant to be and some aren't.

Discovering you and someone else aren't meant to be is totally different than moving in on someone else's spouse or girlfriend or whatever you want to call it. Cheating is immoral, trying to take something that isn't yours is immoral.

[curly1118]

that and there's also "fighting for your love" which is supposed to be noble even

How is ****ing around with someone's emotions and sticking your nose where it doesn't belong "noble".

Open your eyes.

[xxazurexx]

that and there's also "fighting for your love" which is supposed to be noble even

Only one problem, he aint your love, he's someone elses and she doesn't have to fight for his love.

Doesn't that tell you something?

[Fjortis]

Well i don't know if she had to fight for him or not at one point
It's actually pretty weird, i don't understand what's going on, i don't think much about him, and i don't really care about him when i don't see him, during weekend, or when he skips classes, when he isn't in class i actually feel really comfortable and relieved, it's just when i see him is when i feel really nervous and sad, and i actually started this thread after i saw him again, so is it still a bad crush or something else then?

[girl68]

then how come people start dating, break up, move on, start dating someone again.. according to you then, all those people who don't marry their first love a immoral idiots?

What in the hell are you talking about? They fall out of love, familes hate eachother, they have a nasty irreversilbe fight, his dick is too small, she gets to fat. For any bloddy reason, that's why.

[sweetkissesforu]

You think if he breaks up with his gf you'd be his next gf it dont work like that he has someone