more advice please!!!!!

[ptaylor]

Hi all, I have posted here before and had good advice. I am in counceslling for my behaviour, see last posts. I have now not had contact with my wife for 2 weeks now apart from when I pick up our son at weekend. iknow I have bombarded her with begging pleading text, calls and emails. It is hard to not get in touch but I know I need to. Part of me feels that she does love me. I just don't know what to do to make things better. She has told me she doesn't love me but when she has told me I can see in her eyes she is lying. Any advice on what I can do would be great.

I do want my family back and will do any thing to make all this better, I don't know if I can. I am getting on with my life but I am living at my parents and still paying half the mortgage and other things. i can't afford to buy another proerty unless we sell up and sort the finances. This is what I do not want to do as I want my family back.

Some of you may call me sad but I also have had many tarot readings and seen 2 psychics, they have all said pretty much the same thing that there is a chance in a few months but not at this moment. That she does love me but is angry at me, I don't blame her.

Any advice to would be appreciated.

[Sarcasticshoe]

Honestly, the best thing you can do for her is leave her alone (more than you are) and let her come back to you on her terms. by bombarding her with texts, voicemails, emails etc.. you are pushing her away.... (have you ever had that annoying friend in school or wherever that just wouldnt leave you alone? that was always hanging over your shoulder?) ... this is you in her eyes.
She knows how you feel about her and the situation, trust me.
Let her know that you are going to try to let her be and give her time but reiterate how you feel about her... then let it go...

[ptaylor]

I know it is for the best to leave her. I do know she totally knows how I feel. I am scared stiff that she will think life is better of without me. I know I can't do anything about it. i know I cant make someone love me.