Ok so im turning 28 soon and my girlfriend is 20 at the moment.
On the 15th of march we are hitting the 2 year mark of our relationship.
So in the beginning everything was fine we would see each other heavily(go out be intimate sleepovers the works)
We talked on the phone on average for an hour a day and things were going great.
She loves me and i Love her as she is amazing.
She is a student at the moment and just started working for her co op program to get her degree.
About 3 months ago i joined the army (here in greece its unavoidable and lasts 9 months)
In the beginning of that it was going great we talked on the phone a lot and whenever i could (roughly 5 days a month or so) i would visit her and we would spend time together with the same situations as prior.
As she started work i noticed her being more tired and something bothering her.
On the phone i tried to understand what was up but never pressured her into telling because i want her to be comfortable with saying whatever the issue is. She would be very abrupt and we would talk somewhat less.
Suddenly yesterday we talked a bit on the phone and she said i have some issues and i want us to stop talking on the phone for a while.
I freaked and i was shocked. I tried to tell her that that is not any answer and that we love each other and that any situation we can overcome even if i am in the army.
She said that we just need to stop talking for a while.
I asked her politely if we are breaking up and she said no. Either way i freaked because i am really scared of losing her.
I dont know what to do and i really dont want to lose her because she is the only person i have met and i have met/had relations with many that understands me and i feel really loves me as much as i do.
I do not know what to do and i am extremely sad.
She said we are not breaking up when i asked her but what could this mean?
Am i slowly losing her?
Please help and tell me what to do since i dont want to lose her. ever.
Thanks in advance guys and sorry for the wall of text.