Originally Posted by
DCbob
i have always been really insecure about the size of my "male member". recently it has gotten the best of me, and i have been asking my wife about my size and about the size of her past partners. at first she deflected me and didn't want to talk about it, but finally she answered...
...she let me know that i am her smallest partner and that she is use to much larger partners. she said she loves me and sex is fine, but did confirm that i am "smallish".
i feel so bad now. i know i asked for it, but ouch. she is great and i like that she was honest. and i do think she is satisfied b/c we do lots of non-member activities.
but how can i feel better about my body now? my self esteem really took a hit and i feel so small and inadequate.
never been in quite that situation but i have been in situations where i didnt live up to some of the standards that my girl was used to. the way i looked at it was well she is with me and tells me i'm the best in many other avenues, so i guess she is with me instead of someone else....so must mean that the other shit doesnt mean much to her. so **** it if you have a small dick! she likes it just fine and is married to you so you must have something goin for you! as far as feelin better about your body i have no idea other than just love yourself man, and be thankful that you have a good wife that doesnt put you down or cheat on you!
I got loaded last night on a bottle of gin
And I had a fight with my redneck girlfriend
But when I'm drinkin' I am nobody's friend
Please baby wait for me until they let me out again