Hey!
My name is Cody. I'm 19 years old, and need some advice!
I met this girl about 2 months ago. We really hit it off, and we both liked eachother. For the first time in all dates I have ever even been on, which to be honest is about four or five.. It wasn't all drama. I have always been the nice guy. I never had the best of luck with women, but this felt really different. I can be kinda shy, but she understood me. I make her laugh alot too, so I guess that's a good thing right.

The thing is, she is only sixteen. She turns seventeen in about 2 months. I was going to ask her out, but we agreed to wait until she is seventeen. I am in no rush. I want to be smart about it. She is still kinda young. I really do like her but she brings up her ex alot. The guy cheated on her twice, and she said she still has feelings for him. This was nothing new to me. I asked my friend who is a girl why she won't just ignore the loser and leave him. She told me that women get a thrill out of it, and it's some sense of adventure...

It's just depressing I find someone I like and then a "Badboy" shows up and ruins it all. It's a never ending battle, and everytime I find someone it happens. What should I do? Ever since about 4 weeks ago she has been giving me the silent treatment. I will ask her if there is anything I can do.. and that I am there for her.. Won't judge her.. etc. She just says nobody can change it but her. I know she is just confused but I am not sure where to go with all of this. How long does it take to get over an idiot guy who doesn't even give a crap about her in the first place?

I try everything... I am one of the most polite, honest, loyal guys out there I think, and women don't seem to even like that. I'm not bad looking or anything... I have a good head on my shoulders... Like to laugh.. and just have fun.

Thanks for reading all of this... I'm sorry about my grammar and all... It's 4:40 AM and I been playing Xbox all night and watching family guy so I am a little dazed haha.