valentine's day advice needed

[katielacey]

Hi everyone
I posted something about a week ago asking for advice on whether this guy was interested or not.

Well since then we met up on Sunday and chatted for ages over lunch and have chatted on the phone twice for an hour at least each time and texted lots every day

I'm going round to his flat for the first time on Friday.
Obviously it's just a few days before valentines day.
Should I get him a card and give it to him then?
Should I expect one (we've only been on a few dates)?

Also - what do you think he's expecting by my coming round his house?
We haven't kissed or held hands or talked about our situation yet.

Thanks for your help in advance.

[thisguy350]

I wouldn't get him anything on Friday....who knows, maybe he's planning on asking you out for Valentine's Day? See how Friday goes though, especially since you guys haven't gotten romantic yet.

[katielacey]

Hey - so we met up on Friday and he asked me if I liked going out and then asked me if I liked him and wanted to go on a few more dates or if I wanted to be officially "going out".

So I said yes and we're meeting up on Valentines day now.
So I guess /i shoukd get him something - but what? It's kind of tricky when we've only just started officially going out.

Any advice is much appreciated!
Thanks x

[carl1222]

Get him a nice (but not too serious) card and a tiny teddy bear. Things seem to be going just fine between you ... stop overthinking this!

Good luck,
Carl.

[Boisdevie]

Get him a card - forget the teddy bear - that's a girly thing

[carl1222]

Get him a card - forget the teddy bear - that's a girly thing

Sure, it's a girlie thing ... she's a girl. He won't put it on his living room coffee table, but even if it is hidden in his change drawer, he'll be reminded of her every time he sees it. Method to my madness!

[katielacey]

That's helpful, thanks guys :-) xx