My Soldier (Airman) Or my fiance...so confused and need advice...

[hla1212]

I am engaged to a guy whom i thoght was the love of my life but i think im very wrong. We have known one another for two years..been dating for a year and engaged for three months. Befor i met my fiance i met a guy in the airforce. we became super close and fell for one another quickly but we decided to wait on dating until he returned home from his deployment....once he left we kept in touch through letters and a few emails.....while he was away i met my fiance....when i told my "Airman" that i had met someone he was sad but wished me the best and said he would always be there for me..he just wanted me happy...well my "Airman" is home...and we still talk and i see him on occasion but never cheated on my fiance with him...I really miss this guy and something tells me he is the one for me....I find myself thinking about him even when im with my fiance..but what if im wrong..what would you do?

[Darkest Heaven]

I wouldn't look at other people the way you look at this "Airman" guy. But, if you really feel he's the one, go dump your fiance and fck him over.

I feel bad for "Airman" already.

[thisguy350]

I think the real question is: "Is your fiance the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?" If you can't say yes to that, then you need to be straightforward with your fiance and tell him asap that you think you need time to take a break. If you're torn between two guys right now, the last thing you want to do is marry one of them and then have issues during the marriage.

[cmgirl]

so basically you are not really in love with your fiance. thats what i get out of it why are you with him then .... poor man. hes obviously not "the ONE"