shouldnt a man wan to work hard to get a woman off??

[Incognito]

So he never gets on top and when he does he back cramps? How old is this guy? If he doesn't have some sort of medical problem or is up there in age there is no excuse for not being on top. When you initially said "work" I thought you meant above and beyond, but simply getting on top?!?!? Performing oral sex used to give me a cramp in my tongue, jaw, and neck, but guess what? I did it anyway because I made her orgasm HARD every time. Eventually those muscles got used to the motions and length of time I went down on my woman and there is now no problem. Technique learned from being willing to try helped too. This guy does sound lazy to me if I am reading the situation correctly.

[Incognito]

.... Please me... and by golly god will you bust your nuts like there is no tomorrow. I will never, ever settle for a man who doesn't put 100% effort into getting me off, and he will never ever be under appreciated by my reciprocation.

LOL. I totally agree and am totally envious of your fiancee. Speaking of which, when is the big day?

[SelflessnHumble]

LOL. I totally agree and am totally envious of your fiancee. Speaking of which, when is the big day?

I agree. That's hot.

[girl68]

LOL. I totally agree and am totally envious of your fiancee. Speaking of which, when is the big day?

LOL, thanks guys May 12, 2012. Excited!!! As far as sex goes oh, it's equal. Wait, I guess since he's never role played for me perhaps it isn't equal- he's getting WAY more. He gets to nail a school girl, nurse, secretary and Miss. V Dominatrix. Lucky guy.

[sweetkissesforu]

OP sounds like she has some sexual entitlement to me. She sounds like she's a "dead fish" type of girl in bed - just lays there and receives. No thanks.

Re-read the post her man is lazy in bed

[DCbob]

it isn't "work" it's "pleasure" i love to do whatever i can to get my wife to that magical place. and then again!
my wife's satisfaction is just as important as my own. maybe more so. fortunately, neither one of us have to work too hard b/c we are both
easiliy excited

if your man isn trying, that is not a good sign. but maybe he doen't know how or know what to do. but if he is not receptive to communication, then that could be a real problem.