You obviously know him well after this time. If you think he can deal constructivly with what you are going thru then tell him. Just make sure you dont drag him down when you are feeling low, as altho partners are there to support us, we shouldnt inflict all our problems and worries onto them when they are not actually the problem themself.
Dont do anything drastic yet. There is no need for you to move out or anything. if you feel you can let him in on this then do so, if not is there anyone like a counsellor you can talk to about these issues? If your partner is not directly causing any problems, then i dont really see why u should consider leaving him.
It sounds like you are incredibly low because you say you feel like you are dragging him down etc. Has he himself expressed this to you? I think you should at least talk to him about what your going thru, youve been together long enough to handle things. good luck xx
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