Okay, so here's the deal.
Me and my girlfriend of one year broke it off after Christmas. Actually she broke up with me. It was really stupid actually. She had been in contact with her ex and came to be friends with him again. I didn't really care about this since I trusted her, but when she comes home to visit her family from the Coast Guard she starts acting really cold and distant towards me. Her mom and dad pretty much hate me by the way, so I was sure they were just filling her head with all sorts of wonderful ideas about me while she was there. Anyways she never comes to visit me while she's home, not once. But I find out that she went and hung out with her ex several times. Her parents love him btw. So I confronted her about it and she blew up at me telling me that she had been having a terrible holiday and was constantly defending me to her parents and that she couldn't believe that I would think she was unfaithful. So she broke up with me.
It's now two months later and I've pretty much moved on. I still think about her sometimes and we've kept in touch over the phone. I think she hooked up with her ex again after we split up, but I can't verify that and it wouldn't really matter since she's several states away. Everything was going fine and then I get this wierd text from her telling me that 'we need to talk' So I wait for her to call me, because I am not calling her, not going there. And she is really quiet and doesn't say much. And then out of the blue she asks me if I want to come up and stay with her until I get shipped out to the Coast Guard as well. This just blew me away and when I asked her why she would ask something like that she tells me that she's just trying to be nice, when she knows full well that my family would not hesitate to take care of me until I left. So she didn't give me a definite answer that she wants to get back together but I think that is where she is taking this. I mean what kind of person just asks their ex to come and live with them and then says they're just trying to be nice! I'm confused. What do all of you think of the situation?