I tried giving a blow job....

[InvaderTylie]

This Valentine's Day, my boyfriend and I had been having an intimate date at his house, and things started to get heated up. One of my friends had just given her boyfriend a blow job a few days ago, and I was curious on giving one. She hadn't used a condom with her boyfriend, but I wanted to be protected, even though my boyfriend and I are both virgins, and he had never received a blow job before, just as I had never given one. He seemed to enjoy it, but I have a few questions.

Does wearing a condom make it less enjoyable for the guy? Is deep-throating good or bad? Does rubbing the shaft while sucking on the head make it more or less enjoyable? Am I supposed to do anything with the balls?

Sorry for the crazy questions, I'm just very curious.

[KingZ]

Does wearing a condom make it less enjoyable for the guy?

Yeah. It almost removes the feeling completely.

Is deep-throating good or bad?

Good for him, but unless you have a lot of practice, you'll end up swallowing your vomit repeatedly. It'll be painful.

Does rubbing the shaft while sucking on the head make it more or less enjoyable?

More so, if done properly. Giving a good blowjob is pretty much the only thing you can learn from porn.

Am I supposed to do anything with the balls?

That doesn't really make an actual difference.

[cecilia]

Guys like deep throating, like my boyfriend said that my throat closes around the head so I'm guessing it's extra pleasurable. But it DOES take some practice.
Rubbing the shaft does enhance the feeling & don't worry about being too rough. As for the balls, you can massage them but my boyfriend loved it when I licked them too.

[HeartIsAching]

Condoms are very desensitizing. Deep throating feels fantastic for men, but most women can't do it without gagging, at least in my experience. Yes, stroking the shaft feels good. Licking and playing with the balls also.

[Kaius]

Deep throat is a rare pleasure indeed. My fiance deep throats me when i come, so all my cum goes down her throat without her having any in her mouth. It is such a turn on. One thing that porn never shows the the extreme pleasure when a woman presses or rubs the area between the balls and anus. Thats the perinium which is extremely sensitive.

[sweetkissesforu]

Ummmmmmmm ask him he is your bf thats why it is called intimate relationship

[RnBetty]

Since you're fairly new to the experience, thought I would share a DVD called Swiggs that is an educational DVD that doesn't contain nudity. It does, however, explicitly how to do a blow job so that there's little to no guessing involved. The website is of the same name. Even those who have been doing them a long time have made the purchase (in fact, both men and women buy it...some men for their girlfriends...)

[ItsShane]

Does wearing a condom make it less enjoyable for the guy? Is deep-throating good or bad? Does rubbing the shaft while sucking on the head make it more or less enjoyable? Am I supposed to do anything with the balls?

I can honestly say that I would turn down a blowjob if the girl wanted me to wear a condom. It would feel horrible. I'm all for safe-sex, but if I was asked to use a condom for oral, I'd say "well if I'm going to put a condom on, we might as well have sex instead"

deep-throating makes no difference to me.

rubbing the shaft wont do anything for me personally, but if you actually stroke it, it will feel great. The only times I've ever orgasmed from a blowjob is when the girl was sucking it while giving it a hand job.

the balls occasionally feel good if they're rubbed gently, or licked or sucked, but it wont achieve an orgasm...just feels good