The man I am living with no longer wants a relationship because he doesn't think it will work out. We've had problems and I've said some stupid things I truly regret and keep trying to show him how sorry I am but I don't think it matters...........he says he loves me but isn't in love with me. He does show me some affection and calls to check up on me when hes at work. He used to have really strong feelings for me, and I wonder if he still does......... He knows I am talking to another guy and he knows the guy asked me out on a date. He says he doesn't get jealous but hes made some snide comments about how I've only met and talked to the guy for a week.
Problem is I don't want to date this other guy or anyone else, because I love this man too much. More than anything I would like to try and get him back but I don't know how. I've read some advice where people say that if you better yourself and act like you're doing just fine without the guy, he will start to want you back. Since I am living under the same roof as him, I'm not sure how to go about this. Does ignoring them work? Is he jealous over me talking to someone else but not going to admit it? Because when he said he didnt want a relationship with me, I asked him if he wanted me to see someone else. His response? "I'm not going to answer that". Not sure what he meant by that, but more than anything I just want to win his heart back, so any advice on how to do it?