Hi Girls

[ourcocoon]

There is a strange belief in my mind and I need the help of U girls to clarify my barriers
I am a virgin man and kind of old (don't ask how old..lol). I was shy and by daily exercises I have improved my
breathing and self esteem and my shyness is also gone. But whenever I want to approach a girl the big question comes into my mind. Is she a virgin, did she have some deep relationship which has influenced her uniqueness and integral being.
My question is this how bad a girl feels after breaking from her first relation and what does it take to get back to herself. why girls are mostly blaming others for their mistakes . Is there a solution for the problems you girls are creating for the world...lol?
Another question!
Do you consider my virginity as my strength, my weakness, or you dont care at all?

[smackie9]

So which religious group are you with?

[smackie9]

Where a woman's vagina has been shouldn't be used as a gauge on how she is as a person. You should be focusing on the individual, and how you relate to them. Does she make you smile, does she make you feel special, could you fall for her.....those are what you should be asking yourself when you meet a girl and not how many dicks have been in her life.

[ourcocoon]

Thanks for being outreaching and responsive in your character.
I think human has many dimensions.,We can tunnel our vision and still think nothing is missing and remain happy.I think problem starts when men or women`s self limited vision stands in front of life possibilities.
I think any emotional interactive relation if goes divided and separated will develop anger and latter hatred which will tunnel our life vision.Also we all agree that hatred affect negatively the peaceful human relations.....Don't you think breaking from a passionate relation develop anger and hatred in girls?

[smackie9]

If you are referring to getting dumped, anyone will feel anger and sadness, but time heals all wounds. In other words we get over it.