Originally Posted by
leafylass
I've been with my bf 6 months now, things are great apart from my confusion about his ex gf (of 7 years). She cheated on him 3 years ago, he told me he was heartbroken and the break-up was a traumatic and painful one.
At first I said I trusted him and was ok with him being friends with his ex. But now I can't help feel they are too close, he brings up little things about her and fond memories, they still txt and hang out. She recently broke up with the guy she cheated on him with, he met up with her when this happened to comfort her.
Last friday his ex invited him to her house for dinner just them two, this was while I was at his house. I was a little uncomfortable because he didn't invite me. I invited him out with my friends the same night but he wasn't interested.
A few months ago he asked me if i'd be ok with him living with his ex... i told him thats fine but not if he still has feelings for him. He said he loves me and hasn't got feelings for her. I have mentioned I felt a little awkward around her, but this is probably to do with my own past experience and insecurities.
He wants to move in with me in 2 months, is this taking it too fast?
This is a joke, right?
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