Originally Posted by
nymphomaniac
I have to be honest with you, when I don't want to see someone anymore I usually tell them I need space. But don't take it so badly. Take your mind off him, I know it's hard to let go but you have to to rebuild and start again. The guy isn't worth your time anymore.
You are still in mourning. You have to treat yourself to self care. Get your hair/nail done, get a massage, go have a sauna or spa.
If that's not you then take your kids out somewhere they will be excited about. It's not the end of the world. You will meet more men and chances are it won't work out again but you fall and you pick yourself up again and you keep marching on.
Life is impermanent, be thankful for everything you have so the things you don't have melt away.