My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years but ever since we moved into our own house last year, our sex life has gone downhill.
We only ever have sex if I initiate it and even then I sometimes feel like he still doesn't want me. I've talked to him countless times about it and have tried to get him to open up and tell me what he would enjoy me doing in the bedroom but he just closes up and seems embarrassed to discuss it.
The last time we spoke about it I told him that it really upsets me because it makes me feel unattractive and unwanted and he sincerely apologised for neglecting me in that way and promised that he would make an effort. This was a couple of months ago and things haven't improved, we've only had sex once and again it was me who initiated it.
It really gets to me because everything else in our relationship is fine, I love him very much and we still have fun but I don't understand why he won't try and make an effort if he knows it upsets me. He says he is still attracted to me and I believe him but I've never been with a man so uninterested in sex, we're only in our twenties but it feels like we've been married for 30 years. I've given up trying but I don't see how we can have a proper adult relationship without sex. Any suggestions?