I know what you're probably thinking: guys always enjoy sex, but humor me. I'm paranoid.
I'm a bit strange of a girl, I guess because I finish quickly and often as long as I'm enjoying the sex (which I usually do). But both the guys I have been with have lasted a long time (I talking at least 30 minutes after foreplay, sometimes multiple hours.) Granted, my ex was on medication that made it difficult to finish.
I brushed it off then because of the medication but I'm with a new guy and we've only had sex three times. The first two times he didn't finish. The first time, we were both drunk and he ha the spins really bad, so I brushed it off. The next day, he didn't finish again, saying he was just in a weird mood. The last time, he finished after I took the condom off (I finished him off orally) after a lot of sex.
Since I can be satisfied very easily, I worry about the guy. I try to please him as much as possible, but the fact that it takes so long worries me. I have only been with two people, so it could be chalked up to inexperience. But how do you tell if he really is enjoying what you're doing?