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    Should i end it?

    (Both in high school)
    Ive been dating this girl for over a month now. I've always known her to be a flirty and fun loving girl, until we started dating. She turned into this person who doesn't like to communicate (facebook/texts calls/messages) with me at all. Let me explain further, she never calls/texts me or says anything to me in any way other than in person, like keeping in touch with me doesn't matter to her. We kiss and stuff, we arent like a couple who dont get close or something. Only at school do we hangout, occassional dates and whatever. In person she jokes about seeing other guys than me and that everyone likes her/stares at her and all this bullshit i can't stand to hear. She talks in a sarcastic/awkward tone all the time now too, super annoying. Has she lost feelings for me, and doesn't want to tell me? Or does she feel sorry for me in some sick way and is manipulating me? I don't know if i should break it off or not.
    Thanks for the help.

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    Kudos for posting so young.

    I will put this in the nicest way possible. You are young and in high school and I am sure people tell you this all the time, I know, it won't make sense until after you get older and me just saying that wont make sense until you get more life under your belt. Girls like this are not worth your time. Drop her like a history textbook (I am a history major, and I love it, but most high schoolers hate it) and don't look back. It will be hard at first but start hanging out with the girl who gets no attention. Here's why

    "The cutest girls in school grow up to be the ugliest people" (My great-grandmother I had the pleasure of knowing for 8 years of life and have never forgotten this) This didnt make sense until I got dragged though the mud by some very attractive women.

    The quiet girl in the back of the classroom who is ugly more often than not turns out to be really hot later in life and a very humble, loving person who will especially not forget you in the long run. Trust that one.

    Good luck man. Head up and in the opposite direction of her.
    Same song and dance.
    "Whats the weather like kid?" --- "Its always sunny in Hell."

    Third date! Can't stop fate. Its time to take this thing we got to the next level.
    Ya'know SPEND ALL OF OUR WAKING HOURS TOGETHER!!!!
    SURPRISE showed up at your job again! I was thinkin' I wanna be everything to you.

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    You must have really been in my shoes before, haha that's awesome to know. Thank you for the much needed wisdom

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    Just passing down what I have been through. It is not infallible, but just my opinion. But I think you might benefit from hanging out with some older people and ask them what they have seen in life as well. High school never truly ends, you'll see it in whatever avenue you take in life, especially college.

    -Edit- not to mention, it has been my experience, that when you hang out with a chick who is "not as hot as her" it drives the old-hag bananas. She will be at your door in a heartbeat. If not, she wasnt worth it anyway and its a "W" in the win column anyway.
    Last edited by Mr. Turtle; 03-03-11 at 01:42 PM.
    Same song and dance.
    "Whats the weather like kid?" --- "Its always sunny in Hell."

    Third date! Can't stop fate. Its time to take this thing we got to the next level.
    Ya'know SPEND ALL OF OUR WAKING HOURS TOGETHER!!!!
    SURPRISE showed up at your job again! I was thinkin' I wanna be everything to you.

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    er.. ok, to be blunt, she might not expect you to end it, but from the way she makes you feel ( and it doesnt sound so good) yes, end it, move on, have fun, enjoy who you are and dont feel so bad. Relationships are meant to be fun, if they're not fun, or they dont make you happy, it's not the right one for your right now.. sorry if you dont wanna hear that xxxx

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    You should definitely end it. The only real question is what will you do when she tries to make you stay(selfish people never like things to end on someone else's terms). Don't take her back, she'll just bang some other dude and dump you for revenge. Cynical and presumptuous, I know, but it's the truth or not far from it.

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