I have gone from one controling relationship to another in hopes to save them because me myself is so lost and fcked up. Nothing like healing others in place of your self to solve your proplmes ony problem is when ther gone im still fcked up. Recently diagnosed with MS so my life is a whole lot more important than it used to be so now im focused on me and what I need to do to be a happy heathly person comfortable in my very fcked up skin. Anyone else familar with this concept.