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    He says he's not relationship material....??

    This guy I've been friends with has started flirting a lot with me lately, but where guys have only seen me has a 'friend' in the past, I straight out asked him if he liked me in more than a friend,

    He turned around and said he thought I was beautiful, but he was only good for a friend,
    And he wasn't relationship material?

    Lol so, I guess I'm asking the question, is he into me or not?

    And why do men flirt with me but up to date :/ ALL only want a friendship from me.

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    If a guy says that runnnnnnnnnnnnnn he knows it nothing but heart ache
    Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
    Oscar Wilde

    What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
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    Guys just like to flirt. We enjoy knowing that a woman would sleep with us even if we don't really want to sleep with her. It's very ego boosting.

    Hard to answer the last question without knowing what you look like or how you behave in public. Could be a bunch of different things that are turning men off from a relationship with you.

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    He'd probably sleep with you, but in all, he doesn't want a relationship with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doppelgaenger View Post
    He'd probably sleep with you, but in all, he doesn't want a relationship with you.
    leoben;685317]Guys just like to flirt. We enjoy knowing that a woman would sleep with us even if we don't really want to sleep with her. It's very ego boosting.
    I agree, they are both right. More than likely all he is looking for is a friend with benefits.

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    He might want some casual sex, he is likely in to you till some extent.
    But he is being truthful as well, rightful or not I can not tell. He might know he is a troublesome asshole, he might judge himself very lowly.
    You can always ask why he thinks he isn't relationship material.

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