Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Look if you wake up to find your boyfriend penis in you then you have not given consent, it is rape. Scary how many men on this forum think its okay to rape their partner when they are asleep.
It can be rape, but depends on the occasion. If the woman/girl in question has not yet consented to sex and wants to wait till whenever, then I'd consider it rape.
But once sexual relationships have been established it is perhaps crossing some boundaries, but certainly not rape.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
yeah, i don't see it as rape....but if he was to wake me up in the middle of the night and i have to get up early in the morning than there'd be hell.
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
Oscar Wilde
What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
~ by Ralph Waldo Emerson ~
^^^^^ hate to be blunt, but i am so annoyed by your smileys
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
Oh good grief.
Rape, seriously?
My wife gets pretty ticked off if I get touchy when she's sleeping, and it actually kinda ticks me off. And yes, I do make the attempts to behave, which end up getting me in shit anyways.
I don't get nice uninterupted sleeps all the time. She wakes me up all the time for shit in the middle of the night, and while I'm not usually impressed or happy about it, I sure as hell don't go off on some silly claim of abuse.
Men get 'used' all the time by their women.
If you can't handle your BF fondling you, or trying to have sex with you, then maybe you're not ready for a sexual relationship.
Green!
so hello1, do you make your partner literally ask you before touching you? Do you consent to a kiss, may I touch your left boob, is it OK if I take off your shirt? Because in most relationships, consent is more complex and nuanced than that. And hopefully there is some trust and understanding between two people who claim to love one another so they don't have to define consent so rigidly.
And really, how deeply do you ladies sleep? Can you seriously sleep through any foreplay and maneuvering and truly wake up to find penetration has already occured? I am mildly aware when my bf rolls over or touches my arm in the night!