Information request

[jerry309]

I met the gal of my dreams we hit it off had so much fun made plans etc. I understand that she had a very bad previous relationship, her parents her theripist made her break off all communication with me, she said shes not ready, what should I do? I would move heaven and earth for this women. I have since dated a few women, I don't think it's right if my heart belongs to her.

Can this place help me?

[matt4lyfe]

I know you're crazy for her, but for now you should leave her be. She needs time to recover still it seems and she still has that baggage. If you try too hard, you'll end up pushing her and making her feel more uncomfortable.

[Inivisiblewar]

I speak from personal experience. Give her time, you will end up pushing her away. I have recently done this. Think end game, it's better to wait a little bit. So what if it takes a months or even years. If you could spend the rest of your life with her wouldn't that be worth it? Hope this helps bud.

[Zabrinah]

I agree with the advice above.

Your only viable option is to give her some space. Follow the wishes of her family and her therapist. If you're truly willing to move heaven and earth for her, then this definitely will not be a problem.

[Regnent]

I would say, like everyone else, back off and let her unload some of her luggage before perusing.

[jerry309]

I agree 100% That was what I wanted to here, she could come around but it will take time, until then I feel I can enjoy my life and date and if something happens with someone new then it will be her loss!

Thanks for all the positive info.

Jerry