Girlfriend doesn't like receiving oral

[booptiboo]

My girlfriend likes giving me oral but hates it when I try to return the favor.

She flat out HATES it.

I don't know why, she wont tell me why besides "it tickles".....isn't that kind of the point?

I mean I've tried talking to her about it then she says ok and as soon as I go lower she wants me to come back up or she locks her thighs together.

It kinda sucks cause I wanna eat her out but she's so damn protective of my face going down there. I just don't get it.

What can I do or say to make her be more open to the idea.

[Mongoose]

"Does this rag smell of chloroform to you?"




Sorry.

[steviej]

Try suggesting a 69, sucking you off might distract her from her issue, then you get a chance to show her how good it can be.

[girl68]

You may suck at it. She may fear she smells. She may fear you hate it. She has alwasy been taught her vag is disgusting and can't possibly believe you when you say you like it. She thinks you're joking.

I wouldn't take "it tickles" as an answer. I'd ask for more. Why? You nervous?

[smackie9]

If she is a teen then ya sometimes some sex acts seem revolting or makes them uncomfortable. In time as she gets more sexually mature she will eventually enjoy it. If she flat out refuses don't force her. If this is a deal breaker in your relationship then that means you are not sexually compatible and should seek out a apartner that enjoys oral.

[SelflessnHumble]

My girlfriend likes giving me oral but hates it when I try to return the favor.

She flat out HATES it.

I don't know why, she wont tell me why besides "it tickles".....isn't that kind of the point?

I mean I've tried talking to her about it then she says ok and as soon as I go lower she wants me to come back up or she locks her thighs together.

It kinda sucks cause I wanna eat her out but she's so damn protective of my face going down there. I just don't get it.

What can I do or say to make her be more open to the idea.

Something is wrong with her vagina.
She could have huge meat flaps or? Some other underlying issue with it.

You don't have to "get it" either understand and respect it or?
Get a chick who digs it. If she doesn't even want to try: this is especially telling.

It could remind her of an ex or sexual abuse prior.

[DoesntMatter]

From all the porn I've watched, I've never seen an ugly vagina; Well, maybe once or twice

[warriormaiden]

Take it from me, a girl who absolutely HATES having a man perform oral on her, but it's totally utterly DOWN with the idea of doing it to her partner, it's not you. Perhaps take it for her word, and BELIEVE her when she says it's uncomfortable.
It doesn't mean she doesn't trust you, it just doesn't feel good. You know, that is possible in sex.
If you can't understand that, and respect that it's uncomfortable for her, then YOU have the problem and you should do what's best for you.

[bloodtippedrose]

She is self-conscious about her body. I used to be VERY self conscious about the way I looked/smelled/tasted there, but my bf at the time told me he gets primitive urges and crap when he smells pussy and loves this and that blah. So Maybe if you talk about (same time as playing with/ touching her) how much it turns you on to play with her body and the taste and all that jazz then she'll slowly warm up to liking it.

[Benjii]

It's all a matter of personal preference. She may feel that it seems dirty to explicit for what she wants. Best thing to do is get her get her turned on, kiss her neck, chest, tummy etc then ask her if you try it once and if she don't like it, never again. Make sure if you say that it is never again. Best of luck.

[queenofheartsNY]

She's probably uncomfortable with having your head down there because of a host of reasons. Tell her you love her -all of her- and that she should relax because you find her irresistible.

[eonbar]

its kinda intimate so i guess either shes not comfortable with it, or perhaps it really does tickle. alcohol, the answer to all lifes problems. get a few vodka cokes in her, lower her inhibitions then bam ... move in for the kill

disclaimer: SLIGHTLY lower her inhibitions. dont get her so ****ed of her tits she doesn't know what shes doing and you end up doing something shes gonna hate you for and verge on oral rape ... if there is such a thing

[Kaius]

This is not uncommon. My ex-wife liked it some of the time, but was usually too tickled and I get pissed. My girlfriends in college all LOVED it so I know I'm a pro at it. My fiancee loves it, but she really prefers my cock inside of her. I think everyone is different, and for some girls, it's way too sensitive down there. A girl hating it would be like a guy hating a BJ, which is also common....kinda.

[Anturo]

its kinda intimate so i guess either shes not comfortable with it, or perhaps it really does tickle. alcohol, the answer to all lifes problems.

Reminds me of the first shot of the night when I used to go to the bar all the time:

We'd toast the first shot to: "Alcohol, The Cause of and Solution to all of Life Problems!"


However to answer the OP, sounds as if she is young.

Make sure she knows its something you love doing and something you crave from her.

Communicate how good it makes you feel to make her feel good.

[SelflessnHumble]

A girl hating it would be like a guy hating a BJ, which is also common....kinda.

Then he's got issues. He could be gay?