I need advice!

[Michellec]

TO make a long story short.
He was desperately persuing me, he literarly texted me 10 days aday and if I didnt respond he text again to ask whats up!
After a couple dates, I gave it and started to get a major crush on him.
But than I made a mistake by starting to pursue him!
Our texts went from 10 times a day to 2 a week. and after a while he even stopped replying my texts.

So..yes I'm aware.. he LOST INTEREST BECAUSE OF MY ''NEEDYNESS''
SO! now I decided to pull back... and stop contacting him for a good amount of time.

My question is...how long should I ''dissapear'' and if I want to initiate contact in a while.
How do I start? I certainly dont want him to think ''Oh she's back...''

I dont want to seem needy or desperate anymore..
But dont want to lose him, I want to give it ONE LAST SHOT.


ps. I am now on 2 wks of not contacting him!

[bubabalo]

Where you in a relationship?

[Sean89]

To me, this sounds crazy. I do honestly not think that he will regain interest in you after he already lost it once. Or he is playing games with you, which is... well, playing games with you. Not good.

Also, his behaviour suggests that it was just a crush on his side, not "being in love"... so if you want a serious relationship, definitely try somewhere else.