"Just Friends Delima"

[kold_coffee]

She is a divorcee with a female child in her early thirties, I am a married man with two kids in late thirties. She is a habitual flirt, I am an practical and sincere guy. She knew my married life is not good, I know she had three broken marriage. She is a beautiful woman; I am half bald, normal physique guy.

We both met on a carpool site and carrying since one year. She told me since week one, that we can have just friends relationship.

We go out for late night movies and dinners, and also on long drives. We even go out on weekend holidays, together, and drunk where ever however we like. We talk to each & every aspects of our lives, We sing together (She sings beautifully & I am a bad singer though), We crack all kind of jokes, listen music and enjoy each other company.

Last week I expressed my love to her, to which she tell that she don’t want to hurt me, but she don’t feel that way, and asked me that we won’t talk about this anymore. She also told that she won’t travel in my car, and for one week she travel of her own.

This week she text me if I can pick her up again, and I did. But we didn’t talk about my feelings for her.

My questions are:

1. Does she have any feeling for me at all?
2. Can I ever get her & How?

[smackie9]

She told you she didn't so what makes you think we would know otherwise? Stop being a fool!! You cannot force someone to fall in love with you. Forget about her and work on saving your marriage. If you don't you will end up being with no one and a very lonely man.

[smackie9]

This lady is bad news....for one, she is a habitual flirt, which means she is an attention whore and will do it with everyone. She's had 3 bad marriages, that should tell you she is unstable in relationships and will burn your ass anyways. She seeks out weak men like you to use you for attention until she finds some hot dude to date....you will be left out in the cold with a broken heart.

[xxazurexx]

There is no fool, like an old fool....and that is 'exactly' what you are.

[HeartIsAching]

Smackie9 said exactly what I was going to. She's an attention whore that's using you. She'll end your marriage and walk away without a backward glance.