Divorce.
Put out.
Tell him it's ok to find it else where.
Maybe seperate rooms or beds.
Many choices.
@warriormaiden
I've actually made it a point to be distant publicly, and even at home. I can't be around her, and deal with the frustrations of having limits and such without just being a prick.
Seriously, what is the point in paying any attention when, nope you're not going to fool around in the car, and no, you're not going to fool around going through the door at home, and no, there's no straight to the bed room.